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Loving someone is very risky, but it’s natural for us to risk everything we have when we love somebody from the opposite sex.  We will experience every kind of feeling known to man, is it worth?  Many people who felt love for the first time, second time or even third time may say its worth and some may say its not. But does it matter? For me it doesn’t, for you may be different. 

I fall in-love to a girl that I don’t expect that I will love in the future, what a surprise! But I enjoy it too much! Our relationship is not perfect, like other people, we also argue about some things and we are opposite in most things.  But we learned how to adapt in our differences and end up laughing with each other, enjoying things that I don’t like (because she likes it and I’m with her).  It’s hard to understand her especially when you cannot seem to understand what she’s thinking????  I cannot argue with it because we know that people have different personalities and belief in life, and what’s the problem?  I love her right?  Isn’t that the love I feel for her is enough to understand and respect her feelings?  Sacrifice is part of loving, I will be with this girl everyday and will be most willing to be patient and hold my temper even more! Because there are times that she is the one who need to do the same.  If we will not learn to give to others then we will never ever have a successful relationship.  We will break up with our girlfriend (whom we claim we love so dearly) and look for another one which we will break up again (even married couples end up in divorce).  Why?  Because we didn’t learn to give and respect other people, other people always give to their partner but still their relationship didn’t became successful.  Why? Because one way (always one person is giving) relationship will never ever work!  For a relationship to work, each person must learn how to give.  You must grow as an individual person and as a partner.  We must do things that will make our partner accept who they are, if they don’t have confidence in their self, then do something which will make her feel comfortable.  I still remember spending some of our spare time going in the mall but we are going on different section, I’ll go to the toy’s section while she will go in the bag’s section then later we will go together to look for clothes, appliance, and kitchen wares.  We are exchanging our opinions on which one we liked most, after we got tired, we will go to the food court take the food that we like to eat.  The same also work for other things, before going to the movie house we will ask each other if we like the same movie.  She like love story but I like sci-fi and action! Sometimes we watch action/suspense and end up covering our eyes while watching!! Ha!ha!ha! But we both like anime! (still kids eh!)  she’s the opposite of the girl I like but I really love her for what she are.  I like the boyish (active in sports, likes boys stuff, etc) type, and she’s the opposite! Who cares if she’s not that type??? The important thing is that I love her and she loves me! I’m also the opposite of what she likes! (we’re even!)  This is the girl whom I want to spend the rest of my life and if I will be given a chance to live on earth again, she’s still the one I will look for.   

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